I came across some great resources at our church, one of which, was a list of suggested resources for families. I haven't personally read these, so please be aware that while these look promising, you may want to see if you can borrow any of these from your church or local library.
UU resource suggestions for families
The Intentional Family: How to Build Family Ties in Our Modern World
The War Against Parents
Hewlett, Sylvia Ann and Cornel West
Everyday Blessings: The Inner Work of Mindful Parenting
Kabat-Zinn, Myla and Jon
Fitzpatrick, Jean Grasso
**The Parent Trilogy:Three Programs for UU Parents and Other Adults
Morriss, Makanah and David MacPherson, Roberta and Chris Nelson**
This may be very useful, and I plan to either borrow this or purchase it.